I have so far refrained from posting in any depth a reflection/response as to the current situation involving ashkes_muse and sylvari, and the involvement of my wife pinksbrat and myself, mainly because I do not think that LiveJournal is the appropriate venue for such a discussion. I am more than willing to discuss my perspective on what has occurred, which differs from the perspectives that have been offered publicly in this forum. Each person involved seems to have a very different take on what has/is going on, and what has been said and done, and I would ask people to consider all sides of the situation. Again, I am willing to discuss my perspective privately with anyone who has questions or concerns. I can be contacted at mld01006 on YIM.